January 29, 2009

I got to meet a Celebrity

If you ask me my favorite the answer is always the same- TOMATO! I have been Tomato's #1 fan for as long as I can remember and last December not only did I get to meet Tomato, but we had our photo taken together:

January 28, 2009

Oakland Holiday Parade -Part I

So thanks to my coworker and friend Cyd, we got VIP treatment at the Oakland Holiday Parade.
First there was a family reception at the hotel . . . . . the usual suspects were there:

We found a tree and posed for our holiday greeting card:

I started to get excited when I saw the Line up:

Wes got excited when he saw this line up:

To be Continued . . . .

January 26, 2009


Honestly I don't think she remembers to read my blog- but I love my Mom . . . And I don't think I realized that I had my earth day shirt on in this photo- it says "Be Good to Your Mama"

I Heart Michelle

Isnt she pretty?


WHEN WE WENT TO THE Universal Hollywood CityWalk (I felt like being a tourist) we saw this big blue Christmas Monkey:

And this is my favorite photo of us from the trip:

Wes doesn't necessarily like what I have done with it . .. here is the original shot:

My Silly Silly Boyfriend

I love Wes for many many reasons, but his ability to be silly with me is a big one. The die-hard GIant's fan getting nervous in a Dodger's store in LA:
Too much Blue~!

Here he is proving his love for Chocolate:

January 25, 2009

Thanksgiving Continued

Wes and I stayed with my step-brother Todd and his fiance Wenny. We heart these guys.

My step-Dad Jim make Turkey- Every year I take this same shot of him. Here is this year's:




January 23, 2009


So as you all know it takes me forever to get to my photos. It's because I only do a few each day and by "do" I mean I color correct them, crop them, fix them in photoshop, duplicate them, size them and post them on my smugmug page. I am now starting to work on my photos from Thanksgiving and wanted to share the photos from our ride down, our stay in ButtonWillow along the way and Wes finding his twin Lion!

This is the hotel we stayed at in Buttonwillow:

A Taste of India across the street:

Being cute in the car:

Wes and his Twin Lion!

January 21, 2009


"My fellow citizens:

I stand here today humbled by the task before us, grateful for the trust you have bestowed, mindful of the sacrifices borne by our ancestors. I thank President Bush for his service to our nation, as well as the generosity and cooperation he has shown throughout this transition.

Forty-four Americans have now taken the presidential oath. The words have been spoken during rising tides of prosperity and the still waters of peace. Yet, every so often the oath is taken amidst gathering clouds and raging storms. At these moments, America has carried on not simply because of the skill or vision of those in high office, but because We the People have remained faithful to the ideals of our forbearers, and true to our founding documents.

So it has been. So it must be with this generation of Americans.

That we are in the midst of crisis is now well understood. Our nation is at war, against a far-reaching network of violence and hatred. Our economy is badly weakened, a consequence of greed and irresponsibility on the part of some, but also our collective failure to make hard choices and prepare the nation for a new age. Homes have been lost; jobs shed; businesses shuttered. Our health care is too costly; our schools fail too many; and each day brings further evidence that the ways we use energy strengthen our adversaries and threaten our planet.

These are the indicators of crisis, subject to data and statistics. Less measurable but no less profound is a sapping of confidence across our land - a nagging fear that America's decline is inevitable, and that the next generation must lower its sights.

Today I say to you that the challenges we face are real. They are serious and they are many.

They will not be met easily or in a short span of time. But know this, America - they will be met. On this day, we gather because we have chosen hope over fear, unity of purpose over conflict and discord.

On this day, we come to proclaim an end to the petty grievances and false promises, the recriminations and worn out dogmas, that for far too long have strangled our politics."

"We remain a young nation, but in the words of Scripture, the time has come to set aside childish things. The time has come to reaffirm our enduring spirit; to choose our better history; to carry forward that precious gift, that noble idea, passed on from generation to generation: the God-given promise that all are equal, all are free, and all deserve a chance to pursue their full measure of happiness.

In reaffirming the greatness of our nation, we understand that greatness is never a given. It must be earned. Our journey has never been one of short-cuts or settling for less. It has not been the path for the faint-hearted - for those who prefer leisure over work, or seek only the pleasures of riches and fame. Rather, it has been the risk-takers, the doers, the makers of things - some celebrated but more often men and women obscure in their labor, who have carried us up the long, rugged path towards prosperity and freedom.

For us, they packed up their few worldly possessions and traveled across oceans in search of a new life.

For us, they toiled in sweatshops and settled the West; endured the lash of the whip and plowed the hard earth.

For us, they fought and died, in places like Concord and Gettysburg; Normandy and Khe Sahn. Time and again these men and women struggled and sacrificed and worked till their hands were raw so that we might live a better life. They saw America as bigger than the sum of our individual ambitions; greater than all the differences of birth or wealth or faction.

This is the journey we continue today. We remain the most prosperous, powerful nation on Earth. Our workers are no less productive than when this crisis began. Our minds are no less inventive, our goods and services no less needed than they were last week or last month or last year. Our capacity remains undiminished. But our time of standing pat, of protecting narrow interests and putting off unpleasant decisions - that time has surely passed. Starting today, we must pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off, and begin again the work of remaking America.

For everywhere we look, there is work to be done. The state of the economy calls for action, bold and swift, and we will act - not only to create new jobs, but to lay a new foundation for growth. We will build the roads and bridges, the electric grids and digital lines that feed our commerce and bind us together. We will restore science to its rightful place, and wield technology's wonders to raise health care's quality and lower its cost. We will harness the sun and the winds and the soil to fuel our cars and run our factories. And we will transform our schools and colleges and universities to meet the demands of a new age. All this we can do. And all this we will do.

Now, there are some who question the scale of our ambitions - who suggest that our system cannot tolerate too many big plans. Their memories are short. For they have forgotten what this country has already done; what free men and women can achieve when imagination is joined to common purpose, and necessity to courage.

What the cynics fail to understand is that the ground has shifted beneath them - that the stale political arguments that have consumed us for so long no longer apply. The question we ask today is not whether our government is too big or too small, but whether it works - whether it helps families find jobs at a decent wage, care they can afford, a retirement that is dignified. Where the answer is yes, we intend to move forward. Where the answer is no, programs will end. And those of us who manage the public's dollars will be held to account - to spend wisely, reform bad habits, and do our business in the light of day - because only then can we restore the vital trust between a people and their government.

Nor is the question before us whether the market is a force for good or ill. Its power to generate wealth and expand freedom is unmatched, but this crisis has reminded us that without a watchful eye, the market can spin out of control - and that a nation cannot prosper long when it favors only the prosperous. The success of our economy has always depended not just on the size of our Gross Domestic Product, but on the reach of our prosperity; on our ability to extend opportunity to every willing heart - not out of charity, but because it is the surest route to our common good.

As for our common defense, we reject as false the choice between our safety and our ideals. Our Founding Fathers, faced with perils we can scarcely imagine, drafted a charter to assure the rule of law and the rights of man, a charter expanded by the blood of generations. Those ideals still light the world, and we will not give them up for expedience's sake. And so to all other peoples and governments who are watching today, from the grandest capitals to the small village where my father was born: know that America is a friend of each nation and every man, woman, and child who seeks a future of peace and dignity, and that we are ready to lead once more.

Recall that earlier generations faced down fascism and communism not just with missiles and tanks, but with sturdy alliances and enduring convictions. They understood that our power alone cannot protect us, nor does it entitle us to do as we please. Instead, they knew that our power grows through its prudent use; our security emanates from the justness of our cause, the force of our example, the tempering qualities of humility and restraint.

We are the keepers of this legacy. Guided by these principles once more, we can meet those new threats that demand even greater effort - even greater cooperation and understanding between nations. We will begin to responsibly leave Iraq to its people, and forge a hard-earned peace in Afghanistan. With old friends and former foes, we will work tirelessly to lessen the nuclear threat, and roll back the specter of a warming planet. We will not apologize for our way of life, nor will we waver in its defense, and for those who seek to advance their aims by inducing terror and slaughtering innocents, we say to you now that our spirit is stronger and cannot be broken; you cannot outlast us, and we will defeat you.

For we know that our patchwork heritage is a strength, not a weakness. We are a nation of Christians and Muslims, Jews and Hindus - and non-believers. We are shaped by every language and culture, drawn from every end of this Earth; and because we have tasted the bitter swill of civil war and segregation, and emerged from that dark chapter stronger and more united, we cannot help but believe that the old hatreds shall someday pass; that the lines of tribe shall soon dissolve; that as the world grows smaller, our common humanity shall reveal itself; and that America must play its role in ushering in a new era of peace.

To the Muslim world, we seek a new way forward, based on mutual interest and mutual respect.

To those leaders around the globe who seek to sow conflict, or blame their society's ills on the West - know that your people will judge you on what you can build, not what you destroy. To those who cling to power through corruption and deceit and the silencing of dissent, know that you are on the wrong side of history; but that we will extend a hand if you are willing to unclench your fist.

To the people of poor nations, we pledge to work alongside you to make your farms flourish and let clean waters flow; to nourish starved bodies and feed hungry minds. And to those nations like ours that enjoy relative plenty, we say we can no longer afford indifference to suffering outside our borders; nor can we consume the world's resources without regard to effect. For the world has changed, and we must change with it.

As we consider the road that unfolds before us, we remember with humble gratitude those brave Americans who, at this very hour, patrol far-off deserts and distant mountains. They have something to tell us today, just as the fallen heroes who lie in Arlington whisper through the ages.

We honor them not only because they are guardians of our liberty, but because they embody the spirit of service; a willingness to find meaning in something greater than themselves. And yet, at this moment - a moment that will define a generation - it is precisely this spirit that must inhabit us all.

For as much as government can do and must do, it is ultimately the faith and determination of the American people upon which this nation relies. It is the kindness to take in a stranger when the levees break, the selflessness of workers who would rather cut their hours than see a friend lose their job which sees us through our darkest hours. It is the firefighter's courage to storm a stairway filled with smoke, but also a parent's willingness to nurture a child, that finally decides our fate.

Our challenges may be new. The instruments with which we meet them may be new. But those values upon which our success depends - hard work and honesty, courage and fair play, tolerance and curiosity, loyalty and patriotism - these things are old. These things are true. They have been the quiet force of progress throughout our history. What is demanded then is a return to these truths. What is required of us now is a new era of responsibility - a recognition, on the part of every American, that we have duties to ourselves, our nation, and the world, duties that we do not grudgingly accept but rather seize gladly, firm in the knowledge that there is nothing so satisfying to the spirit, so defining of our character, than giving our all to a difficult task.

This is the price and the promise of citizenship.

This is the source of our confidence - the knowledge that God calls on us to shape an uncertain destiny.

This is the meaning of our liberty and our creed - why men and women and children of every race and every faith can join in celebration across this magnificent mall, and why a man whose father less than sixty years ago might not have been served at a local restaurant can now stand before you to take a most sacred oath.

So let us mark this day with remembrance, of who we are and how far we have traveled. In the year of America's birth, in the coldest of months, a small band of patriots huddled by dying campfires on the shores of an icy river. The capital was abandoned. The enemy was advancing. The snow was stained with blood. At a moment when the outcome of our revolution was most in doubt, the father of our nation ordered these words be read to the people:

"Let it be told to the future world…that in the depth of winter, when nothing but hope and virtue could survive…that the city and the country, alarmed at one common danger, came forth to meet [it]."

America. In the face of our common dangers, in this winter of our hardship, let us remember these timeless words. With hope and virtue, let us brave once more the icy currents, and endure what storms may come. Let it be said by our children's children that when we were tested we refused to let this journey end, that we did not turn back nor did we falter; and with eyes fixed on the horizon and God's grace upon us, we carried forth that great gift of freedom and delivered it safely to future generations."

January 16, 2009

By the Way

My first week back on the program is complete and I followed the rules and I tracked and I even excersized (well once) but I really expected to be down one half or one pound at the most, since that is what the plan is designed for and I was down a whopping 2.8lbs! thats right- almost three pounds down in my first week! I am proud! I have to admit though its always easy in the begining. We will see how week two goes!

Couple Stuff

What are your middl​e names​?​
Ian and Monkey

How long did you know each other​ befor​e you start​ed datin​g?​
we crossed paths for 3 years or so

Who asked​ who out?
I asked him

How old are each of you?
I am 28 and he is 31 (for two more days)

Who'​s sibli​ngs do/​did you see the most?​
these days his, but we see mine a fair amount

Do you have any child​ren toget​her?​
Nope,​ not yet.

What about​ pets?​
Mister the cat and one of our roommates is a cat names Max

Which​ situa​tion is the harde​st on you as a coupl​e?​
We have different styles when it comes to a lot fo things. He is pretty calm and easy going and laid back. I like to plan and schedule and be social. Also we are total opposites where sleep is concerned so that can be an issue.

Did you go to the same schoo​l?​

Are you from the same home town?​
No but we might as well have been, my town is his town's long lost twin

Do you live in the same town now?
yes, same house even!

Who is the smart​est?​
We are equally smart in different ways

Who is the most sensi​tive?​
we are both sensative about different things

Where​ do you eat out most as a coupl​e?​
applebees, rudys, all over really

Where​ is the furth​est you two have trave​led toget​her as a coupl​e?​
Wisconsin (I know.... weird right?!) his parents live there

Who has the crazi​est exes?​
i would say its a tie ..but i had more crazy exes than him ...but they were all pretty equally crazy

Who has the worst​ tempe​r?​
that'd be him, although i have been known to lose it

Who does the cooki​ng?​
me mostly, but he is a grill MASTER and makes amazing pancakes and waffles

Who is more socia​l?​

Who is the neat-​freak​?​
he is not a freak, but def more neat- i have more stuff though

Who is the most affec​tiona​te?​
we are both very snuggly​

Who is the most stubb​orn?​
Wes prolly

Who wakes​ up earli​er?​
wes does on work days, but on weekends I do ...

Where​ was your first​ date?​
We rode our motorcycles up to Twin Peaks in San Francisco

Who has the bigge​r famil​y?​

Do you get flowe​rs often​?​
not as often as i'd like ... ..i know it can get expenssive, but a single flower can be very romantic (hint hint)

Who is more jealo​us?​
neither of us are the jealous type but if any hussy out there ever tries something on my man she is in for a whoopin (that was a joke- sort of)

How long did it take to get serio​us?​
one date.............

Who eats more?​
not sure ....i am always hungry but he will have seconds sometimes- we are both being better these days

Who sings​ bette​r?​
dunno we never really sing

Who does the laund​ry?​
we do our own nd share the common towels and sheets stuff- i love having our own machine

Who’s​ bette​r with the compu​ter?​

Who drive​s when you are toget​her?​
we trade off

Who picks​ where​ you go to dinne​r?​
mutual decision or take turns ...sometimes its tough to decide cause he doesnt like japanese and i dont like mexican

Who is the first​ one to admit​ when they’​re wrong​?​
Both.​ We are both prett​y good about​ that.​

Who named​ your pet?
me, i had him first

Who wears​ the pants​ in the relat​ionsh​ip?​
we both wear pants most of the time

Who has more tatto​os?​
he does

Who eats more sweet​s?​
might be a tie (but i think it might be me)

Who has the older​ car?
our main rides are both 2006 but he also has a 1987 Blazer

Are you two still​ a coupl​e?​
Forev​er <3

January 12, 2009


Well its been three days of tracking and so far I am on-point. It was three days of weekend AND eating out too.

So far my Victories:
-Went to Chilis and managed to order off the "healthy" menu AND didnt finish the meal
-Went to the movies twice- first time I brought my own 100-calorie snacks, second time I saved the points for the popcorn (unbuttered)
-Went to a cafe and asked for tomato instead of hashbrowns with my tomato omlette
-Jogged a mile Saturday
-Resisted snacking

trust me its been tough ......as I write this i realize im hungry- but it's lunchtime, which brings me to my next victory- I made and brought my lunch to work!

Thanks for reading :)

January 9, 2009

Not Nervous

SO I have been having a lot of lasts lately ...not really lasts, but I haven been having some of my favorite foods and a few special binges with the impending diet in mind. Like I have been telling myself I will not do this again for a long time and to savor it. Today is the first day of a new session of Weight Watchers and I really plan on making a much bigger effort and taking it very seriously so expect to see me write more about diet stuff on here.

I am going to try to do some excersize tonight too. It may be just cleaning the house (because it needs it) but if not, I will do a video. ANd I hope to go jogging tomorrow too. I already have my dinner planned. I am going to make boneless, skinless chicken on the indoor grill with brown rice and some greens of sort sort.

Tomorrow I will ahve to stock up on more fruit, salad stuff and low-cal snacks.
I kind of strangely hope my weigh-in today is a super high number because then my overall weight-loss success can potentially be more dramatic, LOL- thats weird to say, huh?

Anyway .....In other news I got Adobe Master Suite (at a large discount)thanks to a friend on the inside and I am already having fun playing around with it and learning more photshop tricks. Here is my favorite one so far, it's a photo I took of Wes' bike:

January 3, 2009

Having Fun at Work

Just me being silly at work- Raaar!